Jain Marriage Traditions

Marriage rituals are somewhat different from otherthere should be no waste of money or time. A priest is
Hindu religions. “Jain Samaj” as it isresponsible for fixing a proper date and time for the
popularly called contains various books on thewedding. A pooja is performed at the girl’s
‘jain vivah vidhi’ which are written by thehouse where relatives and friends are invited. In this
popular writers. Jain community practices variousceremony heavenly goddesses are invoked by sacred
traditions which are exclusively for the Jain people.prayers and called upon to take abode in the
The worldly practices are acceptable to the Janis. Butbride’s house. It is done to ensure fertility and
they should not cause loss to samyakatva orhappiness of the new couple.
corruption of the vratas. The samanaya dharmaAfter this, the Patrika bearing the time or Muhurat is
applies to Janis and non Janis alike. Jainism does notsent to the boy’s house. It is usually
automatically reject worldly practices. Jainismaccompanied with sweets.
advocates peaceful existence. It recognizes theLaghana Patrika is read at the groom’s house
dependence of two living organisms on one another.by the priest. The groom wears the traditional Jain
For Janis, marriage is largely a worldly event. It isheadgear and performs the Vinayakyantra pooja. A
recommended to all Jain Shravakas unless they havetilak is applied on the groom’s forehead by the
taken a ‘vrata’ of Brahmacharrya. Thebride’s brother.
children born of marriage will follow the dharma. TheIt is generally followed by the engagement or
ritual of marriage is largely governed by the traditional“Sagai”. The ceremony is held at the
practices that may vary for different Jain communities.groom’s house by the priest.
Marriage is a public declaration of the communityJain marriages are performed under a mandap. Many
support for the couple. Some of the rituals aredays before the marriage, the structure is built and a
common to all Jain and Hindu marriages.‘vedi’ which is altar of the sacred fire is
The Jain community generally marries in their ownbuilt.
communities so that children born out of this marriagePheras are taken after this. An auspicious moment is
also become Jain.decided for the pheras. Bride and groom are taken to
The entire community condemned the practice ofthe mandap for conducting pheras and seated. Girl is
negotiating a dowry before marriage.seated on the right side of the groom. Generally,
Preferably Jain marriage should be conducted by akanyapradhan ceremony is performed at the pheras.
Jain Pundit. Brahmins attached to the Jain communityOne rupee and twenty paisa are kept with rice on the
conduct marriages at some places. In any case, itright hand of the bride. Then father of the bride publicly
should be conducted by some respectable person.hands the girl to the groom.
The person should have proper knowledge of ritesSeven vows are taken by the couple together. Havan
and protocols.is performed after this. The holy water is poured on
Marriage is something of far more significance than athe hands of the boy and girl together.
family vacation or a birthday or a graduation. It is onceThe priest enchants the mantras at this occasion to
in a lifetime occasion.bind the boy and girl in a sacred relationship.
About the expenses or duration of marriage, however,