One Must Recognize One's Needs

I am studying several books (in addition to my KconThere have been many studies that indicate that the
studies) right now that deal with the structure ofmore divisive language is used the more a particular
different types of organizations, the power ofculture experiences conflicts internally and externally
Authority, books on Non Violent Communication (whichand these conflicts sometimes become violent
I am using as source material for several courses I amconflicts. So, I prefer to think of people who are not
putting together on Empathy and conflict resolution),practicing Kcon to be "aspiring devotees," who are not
and material that helps me develop strategies foryet aware that they are aspiring. They are aspiring in
presenting Kcon to the world in general. Of course allthe sense that they want Krishna but are not aware
these materials have to be properly digested andthat they want Him. They are innocent. According to
adapted so that they don't conflict with our philosophy.our philosophy a madhyama Adhikari should see those
This is quite a challenge, but also an exciting one. It iswho are not opposed to Kcon as being innocent.
exciting for me because the whole purpose is to helpWhen I think in terms of innocence or in terms of
others. Otherwise I would not be interested in any ofpeople wanting Krishna but not being aware that they
this material.want Him, the thought naturally leads to compassionate
One must recognize one's needs (spiritual andthinking and action. We should be cautious whenever
otherwise). I have been considering why devoteeswe use divisive, judgmental language. The sastras
have so many problems in their spiritual lives andcontain very clear descriptions because it is necessary
relationships. Observing Srila Prabhupada I see theto present the siddhanta in a way that one will not be
perfect example of how Krishna consciousness shouldconfused, but in daily life one must exercise caution in
be executed. I just wrote to one of my Godsisters asapplying these designations. I have already been
follows: Prabhupada on the other hand was ingetting some favorable feedback from devotees
complete touch with his needs and was veryabout the blog. Many are encouraged by it. It is
affectionate to all and not engaged in excessiveimportant to be able to communicate feelings and
austerities. His life is a perfect example of spiritualthoughts about Krishna conscious realizations and
harmony and balance.service. It is almost as if Krishna told is forcing me to
Just had a conversation with one of my disciples viacommunicate because He does not want me to keep
skype. She has to spend a lot of time outside thethese thoughts/realizations to myself.
temple environment relating to those who are notI read several things today in Srila Prabhupada's books
familiar with Krishna consciousness. Sometimes thethat inspired me in my search for real compassion
devotees in the temple look down upon her and othersempathy. One particular verse really struck me (from
whose life takes them outside the protectedthe SB 4.12.36): "The self-effulgent Vaikuntha planets,
environment of a temple. In the beginning of theby whose illumination alone all the illuminating planets
conversation the word "non-devotee" was used and Iwithin this material world give off reflected light, cannot
made the point afterwards that we have to be verybe reached by those who are not merciful to other
careful in using language that creates division. Inliving entities. Only persons who constantly engage in
ISKCON we have many designations that createwelfare activities for other living entities can reach the
division not only between our members and others butVaikuntha planets." For me the operative word in this
also within ISKCON. We have devotees/non-devotees,verse is "constantly." In order to achieve this constant
devotees/demons, devotees/raksasas, devoteesstatus one has to be impelled by intense love/empathy
karmis, advanced devotee/sense gratifier, etc.compassion for all living entities.